You were in complete control.

[He doesn't waste time letting Astarion undress him completely, already moving to unlace his shirt and pull it off. The chance to indulge with his heart when he was already so worked up.. the feel of those lips, wanting them to bite him, drink from him. He shivered with want.]

Everyone wanted you but couldn't have you, because you were the king of the castle right then. No one would dare oppose you.

[Fenris would have decapitated them if they had.]